) Hello, I had a friend email me.Herewith part of her email and my post about tg and safwty.
There are men approaching women (all women) at gas stations, mallls, etc. They ask the alone woman, what kind of perfume she is wearing. Then they asked if I’d like to sample some fabulous scent they were willing to sell me at very reasonable rate. I probably would have agreed had I not received an e-mail warning of a ‘Wanna smell this neat perfume?’ scam. THIS IS NOT PERFUME… IT IS ETHER! When you sniff it, you’ll pass out. They’ll take your wallet, your valuables and heaven knows what else.
From Denae: welcome to the world of women (smiles). When dressed, CD or full time you must have a much higher security awareness when dressed.. Some men do like to hurt a transgendered woman, we had here in the San Francisco (Hayward) CA area, and when they realized she was a man (lets say part time transition) they took her life. So, have fun, feel good about yourself, but keep your eyes open. Basically, all the same things you would tell a daughter or friend. And in closing,, they warned women to not park next to vans with dark windows and sliding door, as it is easy for you to be taken while locking your car….and they pull you into the sliding van door. And, I was thinking of the oldest trick I have encountered. I am driving, and a man will yell out to me, to roll down my window and he points to my left front tire, and yells my tire is low. Many of you look so good from the FacceBook photos I have been seeing, and from many of my clients at wwwFemImage.com that you have to havee the same awareness as any woman. So, be ccarreful out there! But, of course have fun looking fabulous
I recently ran a test, on how the lenth of a wig determined how well a girl blended. I bought a darling short wig, from Breast Form Store. To my surprrise, the shorter wigi blended in better than the longer wigs. Now, I’m not talking about “your grandmothers’s wig”– but a very new more modern or even “edgy” cut .
If you have any long wigs you no longer wear, take it to your hair stylist and tell her you will not hold her responsible if it doesn’t work out (hair stylist will not cut a wig if you didn’t buy it from them) however iby telling her it is an old wig that you no longer like, and release her of af all finacial responsibility- many will take these longer wigs and cut them into updated, fun short wig.s Take in a few photos of short styles of women, so she understands what you want. I did this re4cently, and I am familar with my hair stylist, which helps, and she cut the long wig, on my head–to match the photo. And, I love it–no one even knows who I am. So, find a stylist,– tip her well always–if she takes care of you, and as you develope a relationship with her– ask her to cut your older, long wigs, with no liability. I was going to toss my anyway, so I only had a little cash to lose, but gained a wig that is real human hair-which looks so fun and even sporty to wear out during the day.
For TG women it is essential to devekope good relationships with your hair stylist (who knows your tg) and a makeuip artist at a store, and someone in the wardrobe dept. Tip them well, or take in a little gift. I tip my hair dresser–she is more important than my mailman or doctor!
. Take in some photos of short wigs to givef her an ifrss, and bring a new life to one of your old wigs!! You can be many womren —and on a budget1!!